Nothing happens in your life unless you create the space for it to happen in

Life is a zero-sum game. Here you are, spending all the time you have on something that's really important, but it's impossible to add a new activity into your life until you first subtract an old activity.

To find the time for the new thing, you have to reduce or eliminate the old thing. If you pick a specific time for doing the new thing, you increase the probability that you will actually do it.